Yesterday was the first day after Paryushan. The day we bow our heads before elders and seek forgiveness. More importantly, forgiveness from the Almighty for all the known and unknown mistakes, sins and vices we may have contracted. Ditto for family and friends. Knowingly or unknowingly, if i hurt somebody through my words, deeds or action, then i bow my head and sincerely, with all i have, ask for pardon.
Forgiveness is given and asked for from people of any age. We have been taught to touch the feet of our elders. Older not just in age. i touch my sister's feet who is just 3 years older to me and who i fight with day in and day out. Well, that's what the whole point is. So, that forgiveness is rightfully deserved. The fact that the fighting starts the very next day after the act is a different story. After all, what would i ask for forgiveness next year.
That reminds me about one more aspect of Michchami Dukkadam. You even ask for forgiveness to somebody you haven't spoken with in years.
Hmmm....over the last few years, i have become consistently disinterested in celebrating Paryushan. There's no celebration in terms of festivities. Paryushan is more towards penance, tolerance and giving up. Jainism advocates you to not do a lot of things you do in everyday life and do a few noble things. Not that you are whipped or looked down upon, but it kind of makes you feel guilty, lesser mortals.
When you see people come out of temples wearing new outfits during Paryushan they have a serious look on their faces. The enthusiasm is lacking. You can be enthusiastic even when you are fasting for 8 days straight. Maybe, my lack of enthusiasm has got to do with my upbringing. We were never among the very keen Jain families. Having said that, i am sure someday i would really enjoy it all. Till then, i am cool with the formality of going through it.
Well with work & all this year, it really didn't seem like it except of course for the food. Food is a big time low point of Paryushan. Just for 8 days, though :)
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